I will answer myself if someone should have similar problems:
The case is solved. Its not easy to find a wiring diagram for the 2.8 diesel but at last I found one.
The three pins on the alternator stands for Dummy-LIN-Dummy so only the "LIN" should be connected.
According to the wiring diagram there should be a wire between ECM pin #93 and the LIN connections with white/orange.
Found the cable by the ECM but the other end is impossible to find if i dont remove a lot of things.
Cut the wire and made a new cable to the alternator and works perfect!